Wednesday, March 7, 2012
Truth Hurts
So you can't see the truth for what it is...WHY??? Are you ashamed to face the DECISION that YOU must make??? NO ONE asks to be molested...manipulated...IT WAS THEIR DECISION...NOT MINE......because you can't face truth...you despise the very essence of my presence...when you see ME you can't help but see YOU...the hurt and pain...Disrespectful you say...SMH...tsk tsk tsk...it's really the other way around. You would rather say hurtful things...make threats...for???? There is no point......the truth hurts and until you face it...YOU WILL NEVER MOVE FORWARD
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well im a female who was raped, beaten, molested, almost killed and now i deal with things that i shouldnt have to deal with but people tell me to move on and not do this and thats because its wrong.....what do i do when the struggle wont go away and all i hear is religious answers that DONT HELP AT ALL!!!!! People still wont talk about what happened and y i have a hard life because of this BS!! What do i do LadyL???
ReplyDeletePeople who can tell a person to move on and get over it, don't understand what you have encountered. Although they may mean it in the best interest, if they haven't been in that situation, it is hard for them to relate to what you deal with daily. In order to deal with struggles/issues, you must first get to the root of the issue. How do you do that? I know you're wondering......it's not an easy process; however, it takes time to unfold each issue until you are able to get to the root. Everybody can't handle truth!!! In order to deal with truth, one must recognize themselves, others involved and what happened. Things happened that wasn't your fault, and yes you are left to deal with what others have done, but you cannot let it change who you are. You may wonder, well "WHO AM I?"
DeleteHere is a tool that has helped me grasp just a few things about myself. One day I was so confused, I asked myself these question: Who am I? What do I like to do? What do I not like?
I sat down in my room after crying and wrote in two columns: 1. My Likes
2. My Dislikes
I was very honest and blunt. I made sure I didn't think about my answer too much because I would have written down what other think I like or didn't like. After I wrote down these things, I read it, I pondered, I read it, i pondered, and I read it one more time. I said to myself "hmmmm I have more dislikes than likes." LOL! I began from that day forward to follow everything on that list and didn't change it to please anybody else. I have been a better and honest me, without being influenced by others.
This is just one step that helped me get past some demands, influences, issues, struggles, and low self-worth issue that I battled for years to overcome. I finally had the guts to say NO and didn't feel bad about it. *smiles*
Well maybe i should try that to see if it will help me......ill let you knw if it did. Thanks sooo much for this LadyL!!!
ReplyDeleteYes, please let me know. You are soooooooooooooo welcome!!!
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